A true story

An ink and watercolour drawing of Butterwalk, a monarch butterfly whose wings never opened, standing on a leaf.

Butterwalk

The butterfly who never flew.

This is Butterwalk. He was a real monarch butterfly. When he came out of his chrysalis, something had gone wrong. His wings were stuck together, and they never opened. He was never able to fly.

He lived with our family for two weeks, a cold winter in the South Island of New Zealand. My daughter Anaia, aged 13, looked after him. She kept him company and stayed close so that he wouldn't have to do any of it alone.

He shouldn't have lasted. He went days without food. He survived two frosts out in the garden. Twice we went out to collect his little body, certain he was gone. And twice he was still there, legs moving slowly, quietly refusing to quit.

When his strength came back, he charged around absolutely loving life! He climbed out of his container, up the leaves, and then onto our bookshelf. He leapt off it, probably thinking that this time he could fly.

He was only with us a short while. But he taught us something we'll hold onto for ever. No matter how rough the hand you're dealt, dig deep, keep going, and make the most of the days you get.

Why there's going to be a book

When Butterwalk died, I wrote about him. I didn't expect anything to come of it. But within 24 hours, over three million people had read the story of a butterfly who couldn't fly. A lot of them needed to hear it. Many told us they saw themselves in him.

So many of the readers asked if we could turn this into a book, so we've decided to write one to honour his life. Anaia and I will write it together.

The post that started it

Where it began

This is the post I wrote the day Butterwalk died. Over three million people read it in 24 hours.

Read the original post on Facebook →

What people said

Thousands wrote back

A butterfly who couldn't fly reached people all over the world. Here are a few of the messages they left, with surnames blurred for their privacy.

Facebook comment: Write a children's book. Seriously.
Facebook comment: Butterwalk gave you an opportunity — you are a writer! Your story got me in the feels.
Facebook comment: I hope we can all be as kind to earth's creatures as your family is.
Facebook comment: One phenomenal human raising a phenomenal human. Bravo to you both.
Facebook comment: This made me cry, idk why but im blubbering like a baby.
Facebook comment: Omg this crushed my heart. This sounds like its out of a romance novel.
Facebook comment: You showed him aroha, you gave him a chance to live a little and he gave it his best shot. Moe mai ra.
Facebook comment: What a beautiful tribute to a tiny soul! You did so good by Butterwalk, fly free now.
Facebook comment: The world needs more people with your passion and empathy.
Facebook comment: Ohhhhhh, my heart. This story about Butterwalk will stay with me for a long time.
Facebook comment: This had me bawling. RIP Butterwalk.
Facebook comment: Got me all teared up.
Facebook comment: Rest easy now, beautiful Butterwalk. Thank you so much for your support and kindness.
Facebook comment: This is the best post I've seen in maybe years. Cheers. Big respect.
Facebook comment: Beautiful humans you are!
Facebook comment: Why am I crying? Butterwalk is flying now!
Facebook comment: That made me cry. Rest in peace sweet Butterwalk xx.
Facebook comment: You're my kind of human!
Facebook comment: His beautiful little story lives beyond his physical now. Thank you for sharing that.
Facebook comment: Best name ever. I'm not crying, YOU ARE.
Facebook comment: It's hard not to get attached to someone so inspirational. Way to go butterwalk, now you can fly in the heavens.
Facebook comment: A life lesson from one of God's small creatures. Yes!
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Fawn· 48m
Write a children's book. Seriously.
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Mary· 2h
Butterwalk gave you an opportunity , you are a writer! Your story got me in the feels.
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Kat· 3m
I hope we can all be as kind to earth's creatures as your family is.
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Bree· 1h
One phenomenal human raising a phenomenal human. Bravo to you both.
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Hannah· 1h
This made me cry, idk why but im blubbering like a baby.
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Karin· 1h
Omg this crushed my heart. This sounds like its out of a romance novel.
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Miriama· 2h
You showed him aroha, you gave him a chance to live a little and he gave it his best shot. Moe mai ra.
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Kristin· 1h
What a beautiful tribute to a tiny soul! You did so good by Butterwalk, fly free now.
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Vince· 1h
The world needs more people with your passion and empathy.
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Tami· 54m
Ohhhhhh, my heart. This story about Butterwalk will stay with me for a long time.
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Alke· 49m
This had me bawling. RIP Butterwalk.
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Amie· 1h
Got me all teared up.
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Rozz· 1h
Rest easy now, beautiful Butterwalk. Thank you so much for your support and kindness.
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Chris· 1h
This is the best post I've seen in maybe years. Cheers. Big respect.
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Sue· 50m
Beautiful humans you are!
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Troy· 51m
Why am I crying? Butterwalk is flying now!
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Deb· 1h
That made me cry. Rest in peace sweet Butterwalk xx.
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Renee'· 1h
You're my kind of human!
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Charles· 1h
His beautiful little story lives beyond his physical now. Thank you for sharing that.
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Juan· 1h
Best name ever. I'm not crying, YOU ARE.
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Leanne· 1h
It's hard not to get attached to someone so inspirational. Way to go butterwalk, now you can fly in the heavens.
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Jolene· 43m
A life lesson from one of God's small creatures. Yes!

For anyone whose wings didn't open —
Walk anyway. Climb anyway.
And when you find your bookshelf...Jump!